I believe that you ladies are proving my point even more.
It seems like you want what you can't have. You want the person that is rejecting you. You want the guy who is distant and unavailable much of the time. The more you get rejected the more you seem to want to try and figure it out and get him back...
It is human nature.. We want what we can't have and we lose interest in that which is too easy and available all the time. We take it for granted until we don't have it...
I sure wish you could see that principle. It seems that you can't even though you are actually proving that it is true. Both of you have mentioned numerous times you don't feel like "dating" and socially interacting with the opposite sex, and yet you do feel like winning back a man who has shown by his actions that he is selfish has another woman and a host of other unacceptable behaviors... and yet you are still focused and ok with that. Certainly doesn't make sense to me unless you factor in wanting what we can't have.....
Forget about the dating. That is cart before the horse. GO OUT and have fun and leave the expectations home. You are worrying and bringing things up that aren't even happening yet. It is silly to think that way.. Be open. Go out and start LIVING your life to the fullest. That is all I am saying. Be open. Try to quit saying "I don't feel this or feel that or I this or I that.. Live in the moment. Quit worrying about "dating".. Just go out and take it as it comes. You may be pleasantly surprised. Closed minds aren't productive.
Which means... It probably would work far better on your WS too.
