Reread the section on LRT. Make sure you are sticking to a strategy and not slipping into revenge because she is hurting you. Believe me right now I know it looks grim and I completely agree with protecting yourself, looking up L stuff, and all of that, but remember why you read the book and came on the website in the first place. You want to save your marriage. You are doing so well, but by focusing so much attention on W and how she is hurting you and not giving you a chance, you are giving her the power to control you, your emotions, which then controls your relationship with your daughters.
Reread the LRT because although it may not work, right now you are slipping back into a rut, and you need to pick yourself back up and start again. You can do this, but you have to stop focusing on W and divorce, and instead focus on you and your daughters.
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