Don’t get caught up in worrying about what he is doing. It will take you to a less desirable place that is frought with expectations. Just keep going on your path. Let him go on his. The interactions, while easier, may or may not mean anything. Only time will show you that. Let things happen as they are supposed to. You may just be surprised by the results.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
Just a quick check in. I`m really not in DB territory any more. I don`t care what H does or doesn`t do, whether he comes or goes, I`m just too tired to care anymore.
When I left for my sister`s place last week he did try to reel me in by saying he would hate if anything happened to me. Naturally I melted, hugged him, said it was usch a nice thing to sya. though I fortunately left it at that. No R talk or anything else.
For now though the Beast is back. Foul, sullen humour, anger.No apparent reason. Well, apart from the fact that, in his opinion, its all my fault.
Hate the way this whole struggle just saps my energy. Finding it hard to keep up with housework the kids and the day job. Though, otherwise I am well(for which I am truly grateful), have my friendship with God and some very very precious people about me.
And , for some reason this week, I kept hearing about separated people in very happy second relationships...
Glad to hear you are all okay from the accident. Just keep taking care of you and the kids. I'm so glad you feel the support of those around you!
I know what you mean about this being energy sapping. I have been so emotionally exhausted this week. It is hard being upbeat and keeping up with life in general when I just don't feel like it.
Keep focusing on you and the kids. I think it is a good thing you don't really care anymore about what your H does. That will help you stay detached.
Busting the energy sapping is something I`ve improved at. You getting your head out of the house is very important-30 minutes in the air is vital for me.
Plenty of sleep needed too!
Then set goals for yourself- a mix of funstuff(very important!) and doing something different.
Anything to take your thoughts away from your H`s mood.
Busting the energy sapping is something I`ve improved at. You getting your head out of the house is very important-30 minutes in the air is vital for me.
Plenty of sleep needed too!
Then set goals for yourself- a mix of funstuff(very important!) and doing something different.
Anything to take your thoughts away from your H`s mood.
