Ali, I am not negative, resentful, brooding to him. I am talking sweetly, hugging him, etc etc
He only responds, never initiates. I think he initiated hugs and snuggles the first 2-3 nights he stayed over. That was it.
Last night he came late and we talked about his job for 2 hours. Till 3 in the morning. I am trying to listen the best I can and encourage and give him ideas he may havent thought about.
In the end I feel asleep, couldnt keep my eyes open. This morning he got ready and left. On the way out he came back and kissed me.
This is WORK time again. No doubt. Hopefully some things will be clear soon. I am thinking of setting the boundary about her this weekend when hopefully he will be a bit more relaxed.
It's weird. He has changed. He was grown as far as the work is concerned. Sometimes, I dont recoginse his way of thinking. Makes me feel ... worried. But, I understand that that is probably a good thing and not a bad thing.
I am thinking what you guys are saying. About showing love. I dont know if I can be open and do it. But I guess I could try. K
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