#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K.. I am glad your Dad is doing ok, I'm sure he is glad you are there with him.

My stbxh reisgned today.

BLOODY HELL !!! Thats amazing! See, he could do it, all those endless posts here about how he wont give up one his 2 jobs..and he just did ! I hope they do let him go.

her "expertise" (BJs) match perfectly his new plans... Which makes me feel like I am the worng person to be with at this phase.

..yes, well, men dont leave their wives and date run off with someone just for their excellent PR, or typing skills!!! You ARE the right person for him to be with now he is launching his own business, you are smart, calm and "the only person he ever listened to" for opinions! Guess you need to work on your confidence??

Something is missing. And it's not her. I think his love is gone. As a result, my love is not coming back. Maybe I am wrong. We'll see.

K.. dont shout at me either, but when I read that, my instant thought was the same as Kat and Jack had. Try loving him?? Its a two-way street, remember I told you I too had to pour as MUCH love and reassurance onto bf as he was me when we reunited, else we may not have made it. I've also been saying to you for over a year now.. take the wall down to him? Let go of your pride a little? Thats why they call it "foolish pride" hey.

Ok, so he left her and came back.. but you have to accept there has to be something there for him to come back to. If you continue to be cautious and gaurded, suspicious, negative (ok, realistic as you called it!), resentful and brooding.. why would he want to be loving back to you?

I also agree with Kerry and I asked you before.. whats with this STBXH????

And like Jack, I would also say me and bf R is by FAR better than it ever was those 9 years before!

At least he said he WOULD come over, instead of go out with the boys..he's trying??
xxxxx