Mar,

Try not to have any expectations. Hard to do, I know, but it may save some heartache. I'm so glad to hear things are improving! Dates with the kids are a good opportunity to connect with your ex. I found that they gave me an opportunity to let my XW see the changes I had been making. She does see it, and is coming back. Sounds like things are coming along well for you; just keep doing what you are doing!


Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10