Try not to have any expectations. Hard to do, I know, but it may save some heartache. I'm so glad to hear things are improving! Dates with the kids are a good opportunity to connect with your ex. I found that they gave me an opportunity to let my XW see the changes I had been making. She does see it, and is coming back. Sounds like things are coming along well for you; just keep doing what you are doing!
Ron
M: 47 W: 50 D: 19 S: 16 Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son) Married: 10/2/89 Divorced: 7/31/09 XW moved back home 11/12 Re-married 5/25/10