Thanks Courtney, it can be tough, but I credit DBing with being in the place I am now. For me it turned into a big lesson in coping.
Can he take DD friday night? Or sleep over? On the couch! Seems like it would solve a few problems. Have you told him recently that you think that he is drinking too much? Or that you dont want him drinking around her? I also think that you documenting these things is pretty smart.
If you ever really wanted to be mean, you could always call him in as a drunk driver!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...