Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

Well, H called earlier today and asked if he could take our S3 to a hockey game. So I said yes. He came and picked him up and left. When he came home after the game. He sat and talked for a few minutes. Just about general stuff. Nothing meaningful. And that was it. I have to start accepting that he isn't going to give me positive things EVERY time we see each other. But he did call me "hunny" again today. I know, I'm susceptible to this stuff, but its something isn't it?

It is. Like I said before; just because you shouldn't hang your hopes on every positive interaction doesn't mean you shouldn't appreciate them.

You also have to remember that it's going to be hard to understand his mood swings because on some level, he doesn't get them either. This splitting up isn't going the way he thought; you're not reacting the way he expected you to.