I got a very heartfelt totured "I am so very very sorry" right at the end of the bomb that was delivered very clinically.

I had my first R talk last weekend (6 months later). I started by apologising for my major faults during our relationship which he accepted and I discussed how I had made changes in these areas for me which he had already seen. He then said his behavior had not been perfect either, I said that the phrase well below par in the last two years came to mind actually and he agreed.