It is the applied kind, and the teacher is also like a life coach, since she has met him things started to change between us. I went for a few sessions with him, but when he started to give me advice on our sexual relationship, I pulled away as I did not feel this was his place.
She continued with it and it is now a huge part of her life, she asks him to "test" everything, from where our son goes to school, to how long her Grandfather had to live. I read on his profile on the web that he helps people make important life decisions including relationships, so I wonder what "tests" he has done on me and our relationship.
It is really driven a wedge between us, and although she says he has never said she must leave me, I feel it is a big part of where she is.
Telling her it’s a quack would probably be the worst thing I could do, as she keeps telling me how I did not trust the process etc. so for now, it's good to know my feelings about it were not that far off.
I just hope that the changes I am making, therapy and time will at least get her to start thinking about just giving us another chance.
M: 30 W: 32 Married: 9 years s: 2.8 Bomb dropped: 7-10-09 same house, bed, no physical contact My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1
