Thanks so much Oz. It's good to have thoughts validated.
I talked to my boss yesterday and told her that I felt like I was treading water. I've been through all this 'stuff' over 5 years and what for? I'm still in the same job and house and still doing the same things. I need to do stuff for me. It's just tricky at the moment with D's schooling and sport.
Like you, I am sure we would get along very well and I think it's a shame that we can't give personal details here. However, when I next come to Melbourne which I do quite often I will post so we can meet somewhere. I love my times in the city. Last Christmas I stayed in Flinders La. It was fantastic.