But before that can happen, we have to love ourselves and learn to be happy just being alone. Only then can we have the ability to have a truly happy, loving R with another person.
Finally, realize that you ARE worthy of such a R, and you deserve it. Your H is not acting like a loving H. And I agree with VH that your H doesn't seem to understand what a M is - a partnership, not a dictatorship.
Is it true? The ability to be alone is the key to finding a happy M? Talk about counter intuitive!
I'm trying not to call H. Keep up the space and distance that worked last week. But today all day I've had enormous panic attacks - like how can I make it through this. How can I act as if when I feel like I'm dying inside?
Sorry to be so down. It just seems so many on this forum don't bring their spouses back and I"m feeling hopeless. How to keep a PMA when I'm suffering from panic and depression?
