MW, What were the circumstances between you when this happened? How much time had gone by when you said these things?

I am at the point where it is not about his response--it is about saying what I need to say. In fact, I don't even want a response from him. I am not sure how to approach but I have some time to mull that over.

Walking, thanks for your comment. I wish I did not feel obliterated, but I did.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D