What to do, what to do?

[courts0818]

Oh my goodness...okay heart's now in pieces after reading what your littlest one was saying. : (

He knows exactly what he needs to do - come home and be a loving H and father - the same thing my H needs to do! Lulu, I feel that exact same pain when my DD is hurting from a stupid, selfish choice my H makes.

But...the light here is that your H actually felt guilty and acknowledge it. Maybe he's finally seeing through his fog - that this isn't just about him. IMO coming home for your daughters is a very positive start - it won't mean that things are fine between you two. But it will mean that your H understands and accepts some responsibility for the confusion and hurt he's caused your DDs. It's a step in the right direction. Wish my H would feel guilty for what he's done to our DD.