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brownidmom,

Thanks for the reply. We have not told the kids yet but we intend to on Saturday. This will be the hardest for me. My kids mean the world to me. I have to be strong because there have been lots of tears over the last month. I just hope I can keep my composure. I do not want my wife to see me in a down mood again. Today was excellent. She cannot figure out why my mood is changed from sorrow to happiness and upbeat. Part of it is acting and part of it is real. I have lost 30 lbs in month and was not overweight to begin with. After reading these forums and some advice from a friend, I decided I have had enough of feeling sorry for myself. I cannot control her actions but I can control mine. My atty would not let me leave the house to workout, but now that we have a temporary arrangement through the friend of the court I can get back to working out which I enjoy greatly! Thanks for your reply.