Trapt, Your situation has been one of the ones where you say Hmm. Maybe there is something to the MLC syndrome. Painful as it is when it is too little too late, at least it is SOMETHING.

I kind of feel like I've been obliterated, erased. I feel as if this is a way to say "I am a person, too, and I am NOT going to have my feelings and experience denied. I have feelings, too."


Walking, I am interested in seeing how he responds because I have found myself wondering if he is capable of seeing me as a person. The answer to that gives me some ideas on the types of boundaries that I need to have, going forward.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D