nagl,
Reading along. Good luck with counselor tomorrow night. Might be helpful before you go to acknowledge that you both feel nervous about it. And you're both still going.


I don't know of any good books, but others will chime in and you can ask the MC, too.
Keep going.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac