He had things to say to me and in the end he told me that if I'd treated him better in the first place that none of this would have ever happened. I knew it would be all my fault. I'd told him that I don't see it as a matter of if things fall apart again, but of when they fall apart. In other words, when he cheats again. He said that if I'm so worried about it the maybe I should get him a job with no women and drive him to/from work. It was unbelievable.
Sue, I am so glad you have seen sense although I am so very sorry your H has put you through all this. He is a major manipulator. You and your little angel will flourish without your H to hold you back. Just look at how Yoyo has spread her wings and is enjoying herself. You just have to wait until YOU are ready to reach that point. (((((HUGS))))))
I know that just because you have reached it, it doesn't make it easy. You H is just a prize slime ball. I don't know what it will take to make him change, but my guess is that whatever it is it will be so big that you and your D5 don't want to be around him when it happens. One day his luck will run out with the drinking and driving.
We are all here whenever you need us....and if I am not on the boards, you know my email.
You, Yoyo, Sara, FightingIrish, LWB, SallyM....and all the guys.....you know who you are.......were/ are such a life line to me. What a long way we have travelled.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
