OK, projecting my own thoughts here, tell me if I am off base.
Do you think you are disappointed b/c in your mind, MC without him doing some kind of IC to figure out his 'stuff' first, will not solve the problem?
I know that we did the whole MC thing (granted h was still having affair and lying it was over so that didn't work!), then when he ended the A for real we did Retrouvaille. But in the end he never processed the stuff that was just his to deal with, so things never got better...
I like that it is a Christian MC though. They tend to be pro-marriage...
