did you get apology? Remorse? Regret? Hesitation?

[forward]

J3B, Yes, I knew you got back together.

Did she just call out of the blue? What were things like between you when she call's ed?

I just need to say MY piece. I need STBXH to know how badly hurt and stunned I was by his behavior, and how I had PTSD because of it.

I will add that I would not bring up OW, but STBXH's behavior prior to his taking off.

Another reason I want to do this is because I am curious to see how he responds. It will give me some cues on whether I believe he is capable of understanding others' feelings.