hbd,
Wecome/Sorry.
You're in the right place and from the looks of this
Originally Posted By: hbdad
I have been in a very, very good mood and have decided to take the high road. If she comes around great, if not I am not going to live in sorrow for another moment. Any advice would be great. I just wanted to share my story and get things off my chest.
you're already progressing well. Keep reading here and DR. Post to vent, journal, rant, ask. More details would be helpful: how long together/married, when was the death of the student, iow, when did this all start, etc.
Will talk again, soon.
Keep going.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac