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Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
TRUSTING #1866705 11/03/09 01:46 AM
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Trusting, I suspect he is drained now. As I mentioned before, you got a glimpse into the fact that he is not happy w/OW.

When your R with your SO is marred, it's hard to be happy with your life overall, as we all know.

Although STBXH still acts smitten w/OW, he has taken a step back with her.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
forward #1867018 11/03/09 05:35 PM
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Thanks forward for your post.

Ex does seem rather exhausted. He is really clinging on to the kids this week, not wanting to be without them. He is much like a child himself....

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
TRUSTING #1867309 11/03/09 11:46 PM
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Trusting, You probably are tired, too. Peace....

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
forward #1867342 11/04/09 12:27 AM
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Just tired of having to deal with a man in MLC. Tired of it being a part of my life.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
TRUSTING #1867364 11/04/09 12:45 AM
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Well, all I can say is that we all relate!

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
forward #1867856 11/04/09 07:15 PM
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Nothing but silence in my situation. Usually after court dates, ex bad mouths me non stop. There is no indication that this is occuring.

Peace to all.....

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
TRUSTING #1868114 11/05/09 02:15 AM
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Trusting, Maybe his anger is dwindling.

I am guessing, too, that now he is blaming OW for all his problems.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
forward #1868255 11/05/09 01:18 PM
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Maybe he had just been beaten by a bigger bully than him - The Judge grin

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XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
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Maybe T he is just fueling..right now there is no reason to attack.. He tried to bully, it didn't work. The judge speaks for you -- he needs to back off.

I am sorry that you have so much madness...

M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again
Re: BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3
cagzmom #1868555 11/05/09 07:36 PM
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Do you really think they blame OW for things?

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11
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