Hi, new to the forums and this is my first post on any forum even though I am a "Computer Guy". My wife filed for divorce last week and is currently "emotionally involved" with another man. Don't know all the abbreviations yet. We met with the friend of the court today to go over child custody. We agreed to nest one week off/ one week on with our 11 yr old son & 9 year old daughter. The catalyst of this whole event was a death of a student where my spouse teaches. After this she said you only live once and I am moving on. I had a one night stand 10 years ago and admitted to it the next day. My wife has had a couple of these "emotional affairs". We never went to counseling because of the cost. What a mistake! We both make good money. Anyways I have been reading the posts and have the DR book. I am proud of myself today because I totally did a 180 on her. I have been in a very, very good mood and have decided to take the high road. If she comes around great, if not I am not going to live in sorrow for another moment. Any advice would be great. I just wanted to share my story and get things off my chest.
HeartBroken Dad
Me: 42 Her:41 Son:11 Daughter:9 Married:1993 Bomb 9/09: "I am ready to move on." Filed 10/21/09 Separate: 11-8-09
We met with the friend of the court today to go over child custody. We agreed to nest one week off/ one week on with our 11 yr old son & 9 year old daughter. The catalyst of this whole event was a death of a student where my spouse teaches. After this she said you only live once and I am moving on. I had a one night stand 10 years ago and admitted to it the next day. My wife has had a couple of these "emotional affairs". We never went to counseling because of the cost. What a mistake! We both make good money. Anyways I have been reading the posts and have the DR book. I am proud of myself today because I totally did a 180 on her. I have been in a very, very good mood and have decided to take the high road. If she comes around great, if not I am not going to live in sorrow for another moment. Any advice would be great. I just wanted to share my story and get things off my chest.