Here's something I didn't understand: She sent me a text as I was leaving work asking what I was doing tonight. I told her I had options and asked her what was up. She then asked if I was going out and I told her it was either to a movie w/a gal or to the school football game.
She told me to text her when I decided what I wanted to do. I sent a text saying I didn't want to drive all the way back across town for the game, so that is out.
She replied with "if you are set on going to the movie, I'll see what my girlfriend is doing. I'll let you know." I told her I wasn't set on anything, but didn't want to sit still and if she had a better option, I'd hang w/her tonight.
She texts back w/an offer to go hang out w/her and her friend and I say "give me a minute to mull it over." Well, that got me a response of "it doesn't seem as if you are interested, so we'll catch up some other time."
My reply was "I just cancelled my movie date, so I'm in. Do I meet you there or pick you up at your place?"
Dropping someone you've made plans with like a hot potato also sends a message to GF, that you're more than willing to drop things for her.
No more questions. Simple direct statements. Say what's good for you.. "I'll meet you at X" and let her make adjustments. And stay out of the bed during this 'man up' time. Sheesh!
