as we move forward II

[forward]

ML, I am happy for the fact that your X has taken some action w/your S.

The saying is "What you focus on expands." Focus on the fact that he is involved with your S and try to ignore the shortcomings that he has in parenting, is all I can say.

I am relieved that STBXH has shown more interest in D; she was so starved for his attention. She needs more of it, and she will never get what she would have had if we were together, but it is better and I try to focus on that.