Not Me...Ever part 2

[TrentC]

I like that perspective however where do I find His plan for me? I am trying to go as I feel He wants me to go yet each door is being shut before I can go through it...

Well, the obvious path would be the one that is stated in the Bible:

'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'[b]? 6So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.

However, divorce is permissible in the case of unfaithfulness (Matthew 19:8), so you could leave him without feeling like you are committing a sin.

The million dollar question - Do I stand and fight (which is what I believe) or do I throw the towel in and give H what he wants which goes against my beliefs...

I plan on fighting my D every step of the way. So if we do split up, I can look at myself and say that I did my best to preserve this relationship.

He blantly chose the OW not me so I needed to basically suck it up/let go/give him the divorce/pick up the pieces...I didn't have an answer to that

All I can say is that we will be in your corner, whatever you choose to do.