My W has been picking the fittings. She has much better fashion sense than I do and she enjoys it. She has done a wonderful job with everything so far, and the house is looking great. She is better at visualising things than I am so it makes sense. She will pick a few different styles and asks for my opinion on those. So we do decide together.
She has punished our son for misbehavinng (punishment that she has told him will be until Saturday. She said that she would lift the punishment while he was with me if I wanted her to. I said no. It's punishment regardless of where he is. I think it sends a clear message to our son as well. I think we have to stand together on stuff like this.
I don't think I'll keep anything from her. She has trust issues with me, and I need to be completely honest with her. I'd rather tell her that I want to make sure we are seeing the right person.
Trent, thanks for the link, but they only list US companies. I'm in Sydney.
I think I'm just going to go to the first session with some questions prepared for him/her and gauge their responses. If I'm not confortable with their response, I will ask my w if we can see someone else.
We do have a family friend who is a priest, and he may be able to either speak with us (he also knows the family history. He performed the funeral service for my father in law and has spent alot of time with us over the last couple of years). If my wife is not comfortable speaking with him, I'm sure he can point us into the direction of some-one good.
