I don't think I have ever posted before. I am sorry that you find yourself in your current situation. I remember reading an article on lodo's thread where the lady kept telling her H that she wasn't buying it. She kept GALing, but whenever her H said something along the lines of not being in love with her she repeated her "phrase". I am not sure that I buy that anyone right off the bat would have it so together that they could respond that way but it worked for her in the long run.

Maybe even just that response would be a shock to them. Either way it couldn't hurt. Life is certainly too short to be lived in limbo.

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory