WAW Using God

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Are you paying for her cell phone, internet, lunches?

Does the OM's wife know what's going on?

Are you going out for yourself and being mysterious?

Are you connecting with old friends?

Don't enable any of this behavior. Guilt isn't going to change your wife, your actions she will notice.

We have always been a two earner family and split all expenses.

The OM's wife knows what is going on. They will likely divorce. He has already moved out.

I could do better in the mystery/going out/connecting with friends department.

I am working hard to be fun to be around, no matter what she's done to irritate me. It can be difficult at times, but I'm doing it.