Anyone who has improved themselves is a success here. I got lucky with timing on my marriage, I'll be the first to say that.
I TOTALLY agree with Kat however.
To love someone is to put everything you cherish in their care, hopefully to protect, but easily enough to destroy. To do that again with someone who has proven their capability to destroy that takes some balls. It takes courage, no matter how many times you tell yourself that you will ok if they do.
You have to be courageous to allow yourself to be vulnerable.
I am not saying you are not courageous Kalni, I am saying I understand the fear.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
