The past couple of days have been the closest to pre-bomb behavior as ever. We joke and tease each other, she will let me kiss her occasionally and spontaneously (though I'm trying not to push it at all).

If it weren't for the fact that she still sleeps in the other room and has a hard time responding to "I love you", I'd say we were on the way to reconciliation.

She still has not brought up or committed to joint MC. She is still technically recovering from surgery and home from work, so I'm going to table R discussion for the rest of the week -- even if started by her -- to keep the positive vibes going. Then I may bring up the question of MC, if she doesn't.

I have a meeting at church tonight but my weekly bible group is cancelled for tomorrow; one of the couples involved apparently got exposed to H1N1(!). I may go dancing again on Thursday. If I feel up to it.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."