I didnt say anything about our R but Im sure confused!
So is she.
Let her stew on it for a while. If you press her for details, you will push her away. If you don't, she may drift back to you a bit.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement