Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

She sat on the bed and asked me a ton of questions about the doctor and the procedure. She also talked about the kids and she felt like someone should have told her about the procedure and that I was in the hospital. She hugged me a few times and seemed genaerally concerned about me. Baby steps..

Exactly. This is very similar to my situation -- my wife had to go in for surgery, and I stopped all R talk for the three days she was in the hospital and was just there for her. I think it went a long way towards changing the course of things.

The last time she hugged me I kissed her she recipracted but then sais stop this will just confuse the situation. What should I make of this?

Exactly what she said.

She obviously still has feelings for you, but you can't push on them or she'll pull back. If she wants to be there for you while you recuperate, let her be. No R talk!