I think I'm gonna stick with my original plan. I think three weeks notice is too much, and it'll get really awkward around here.
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If he was reading on DB some of the advice on here will tell him that if you are a WAS looking to move out, then he should kick you to the curb sooner rather than later, to learn the consequences of your actions. He may chose that instead of letting you stay the next three weeks 'cake-eating'.
That's another thing that I'm afraid of. I saw those posts by the guys here early on- that's why I asked in my very first post why I should stay in my M...
I also want to proceed on the notion that I made my decision, whereas the IC thought it was better as a joint decision. I don't want to look like I'm asking permission. I'm surprised she thought that, actually she really knocked me off my game by suggesting that. Maybe she's hoping for some last minute regret by H? I told her he was tearing up during that last conversation- maybe that was throwing her off. I know he doesn't want me to go, but I can't stay on his terms.
I felt more confident with the one week's notice, I'm sticking with it.
