Its his reaction to them rather than the texts themselves. They seem to have lead to further absences and leaving the room for calls that had pretty much stopped. This in turn has taken his focus of us again I think. I guess that they are unwelcome is good. I guess I can see if it blows over.
I feel like I am sitting on a shelve like a spare part right now and its not a nice feeling. I am not sure if I am just wasting my time and should move on (yep one of those days)