The Quick Solution & being "Unique"

[TrentC]

Divorce busting is getting you to the point where the WAS reconsiders the marriage and wants to work on repairing & improving it with you as a partner: you are both deciding at that point to work on it, it isn't just one person dictating to the other what must be done, it's a joint decision.

I loved it when SmileysPerson said something similar the other day, and I love this part now.

Divorce Busting is about changing course away from a near-certain outcome. It's relationship triage -- how bad are things, and what needs to be done to stop the bleeding until you can wheel it into surgery?

(Of course, that makes it sound like what most people do in this situation -- beg the other person to stay, cry, etc. -- but that would be like giving someone two Tylenol and telling them to hold on while their leg is bleeding out.)