I agree with 100% of the initial post as long as another party is not involved. But I do think it begs the question,
What if the WAS is actively engaging in an affair?
Do you suggest/promote that the spouse who wants the WAS back should be ok with the 'dating' concept, having good times, re-building a relationship, etc etc with no pressure, just seeing where things go? From what I have read of you Robx I would not expect that for a minute...
Otherwise I do agree though. I am one of the thousands of 'unique' people here who has committed that foul. You know, the one where you say, "We have been getting along so WELL these past 37 (or for the NOW NOW NOW people, 3 (!)) days, are we getting back together? Are you committed to me? Huh? Huh? Huh? Are ya?"
Yeah, that is so NOT attractive...yikes. But happens all the time...
