There was one time that I got a very vivid mental image of my wife with another man in particular.
I've been able to keep most of those away; I have a competing mental image that I meditate on when I start to slip, though.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement