And, if I am to believe my W, as I must, she has been unhappy for 7-8 years, based on her last discussion with me.
Why must you believe that? Believe little of what the WAS says...
Your WAS is so worried about appearances, I think some big amounts of reality are needed. The reaction to you taking of your ring was comical. She can say she wants out but you take off a piece of jewelry and that is the awful thing? Lay it down, have the talk like I said before... you prefer to save the marriage and you are well on your way on fixing you for your own sake. She wants some of that then great; if not time for her to get a job and start looking for a place to live.
A good defense is a strong offense. Time t put the pressure on, see how she reacts when the appearances can no longer be faked. And all of this is for you dude because the way life is now sucks right?
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
