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Probably. I mean, I do realize its not because he wants to try again. I did, however, just send a text asking him if there was a reason he wanted to stay married. I figure if I come off as having "hope" he will just send the paperwork to avoid that aspect.

Then again, I will probably just have to have him served.

What the hell happened to the responsible guy I married?


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OMG I so have to laugh!!! I did get a response to the text I sent. stbx swears that he hasn't signed the waiver because he cannot afford to.

Ummmm HELLO!!! If you go into your bank they will notarize for free. He works for child protective services, and knows tons of people at the courthouse, who would NOTARIZE FOR FREE. He is trying to tell me that it costs $25 to have something notarized. I was a notary and that is against the law in Texas. Notary's in Texas are allowed to charge a nominal fee, the most is six bucks.

What kind of crap is this?


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I wish I knew why he is like that. I know how frustrating this sitch can be, it's almost like not only he ruined what you had, but also tries to stop you from spreading you wings...

Push till he gets it.
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Or he's really an idiot.

It sounds like someone dropped him on his head!

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Or both? I am not sure what the heck he is trying to do. It almost seems like he is pulling excuses out of his butt to drag this out as long as possible. I want to remind him that he is the one who wanted this, so why make it difficult now? But I also know that is not what I want anymore either. I still love the man I married. The problem is, stbx is not the man I married anymore, and I am not sure he ever will be. I am ready to take that breath and move on. But it seems like every time I take a step in that direction, he buries his head in the sand and hides.


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Okay so I am supposed to get the signed and notarized waiver on Monday. Anyone want to lay bets on whether or not I actually get it?????


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I'll put $20 on NOT! smirk (Based on personal experience)


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Lola,

I'm positive you're going to get it - without a doubt, trust me. Oh and by the way, I have this great deal on some land I'd like to sell you in South Florida - real nice piece of property. grin

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You guys kill me ROFLMAO!!! You know, this is actually getting kind of comical...


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I think the line is so large the bookies won't accept bets....

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