I'd say stop the mathematical musings which serve only to soothe you with the illusion of being able to predict that which is not predictable. What other purpose does it serve? Can you see the downside?
Yeah, that really won't help the situation at all.
A month ago, I said that there is no way my wife was going to stay with me. Yesterday, our lives were almost back to "normal" (although there is still an open question about the future of the R).
Maybe in a month, we'll be recommitting to each other and doing MC to work on the issues. Maybe in a month she'll decide that she can't love me any more and leave. There's no point in fretting about either possibility.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
