You fell into the validation equals agreeing trap. You can say you understand how he feels, without telling him you support his decision... unless you do? You can say that there are things you could have done differently, without saying you were a [censored]. You can apologize without running yourself down.
Is he the only person that could have helped with the computer problem? I'm not sure that extra contact with him is a good thing right now.
(((((Sad)))))
Last edited by Virtually_Handsome; 11/03/0906:16 PM.