Very interesting post by robx I just read. Very thought provoking.
So, in a sitch like mine, Thinkers, and MANY others here, what is the gameplan.
In my case, I have been DB'ing for 6 months. And, if I am to believe my W, as I must, she has been unhappy for 7-8 years, based on her last discussion with me.
Am I being impatient, as robx suggests in his thread? Could be. Or, am I better off pushing for working on the M or D?
Tough call. I fully accept my responsibility for getting me where I am right now. And, I also fully accept I am not entitled to anything (sort of my philosophy in life). I also accept that my old M is dead (I do not want the old M back).
So, it seems the choices are be patient, keep DB'ing, but only for myself, OR push for a commitment from WAW - and I am 99.9% certain where that leads, I think.
I don't see how one can pursue both those paths. One may lead to the other, but not at the same time.
