WAW Using God

[pigskin]

Haven't posted in a while so just giving an update.

No change in my situation although it is clear my wife feels guilt. She no longer has the opinion that God pushed her to the OM. She thinks what she is doing now is not what God wants.

To quote Caddyshack, "So I got that going for me. Which is nice."

Of course she still isn't listening to what God wants and continues contact with the OM daily via email and lunches. I have no control over this, but my boundaries are being respected, so there is little I can do in this area. I know the OM is putting pressure on her to take the relationship further. Perhaps he is getting impatient.

I have gotten pretty good at detaching. I still have moments of anger but they pass, and I never let her see me reacting that way.

I'm committed to this marriage and have to continue to be patient. I know the Lord is doing all He can, and gradually He will break through to her.