Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
well for me......there might be steps that my ex will make that would make it seem like he's pulled his head out of a nether-region.......and then he will do something that confirms that yes, he is a lying d-bag.
No bitterness here !!!!!!!!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Say the word and I'll come there and kick her as@...oops sorry, Brooklyn in the house.
Hang in there, my friend.
It wouldn't do any good.
She takes being an ultra passive aggresive manipulating, lying control freak to a whole new level.
What happened? I don't know but it seems as though she has taken a giant leap backwards.
I know why.... I'm not playing her game. I'm not there for like a spouse anymore. I'm not standing around with my life on hold letting her control me.
The main reason is, she is miserable. And if I'm not right there close by her side getting strung along, waiting for her, and miserable too she can't freakin stand it.
She has been selfishly using my daughter and OM in a few ways that I'm not going to get into on here. It's pathetic. The minute she sees me not buying into here little game she pulls this. A few different things have happened as of late.
I'm not going to give her any of what she wants or is expecting, however the ice under her feet is paper thin at the moment. I will not sit back and watch my daughter get used like this.
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