My ex goes in spurts with the kids. At times the kids are just obstacles to him at other times he is very clingy with them. My ex does look mentally ill to me, I hate to admit that but it is the truth.

I am beginning more and more to think my ex will be one of those who does not ever wake up.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11