WAS rarely think of the consequences of bomb dropping, an affair or the legal proceedings. Any feeling or emotion she has is hers to deal with on her own.
The WAS tends to think the LBS will "get on board" and do just as they want. When you are not included in the decision to end a marriage then the WAS is on their own and that includes finding new housing.
CityGirl, I have to thank you for this insight. I feel this is so true in my sitch. My H somehow thinks I need to meet to discuss a separation agrmt. As his L is the sister of OW, (as far as I can tell) he is blissfully unaware of the work I've done interviewing L's filling out long complicated paperwork, & coming up w retainer fee. He just thinks I'll get "on board" as you say & makes things so easy for him. He thinks I'm stalling to slow down process, which I was before, but the fact is all this BS takes time, & I refuse to be rushed. Great insight, thank you. I will look up your thread, you seem to have great advice.
Bill, I hope you are doing OK. Don't mean to hijack. You haven't posted for a while, how are things going? LFA
