I am planning to have the Boundary talk with her later this week where I am going to put a time limit on how long I will allow this to go on before I take action myself.
You will have no effect on her because she knows you are indecisive.
You are dying on the vine here. Stop waiting to take action. Your wife wants you to fight for her and you still are on the sidelines waiting to see. I understand it is hard and seems counter-intuitive but setting boundaries is very effective. Would you rather set a boundary or explain to your kids why you didn't stand up to Mom and fight for your marriage and family? You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
