Karen, Do not feel alone in feeling like a dummy...I too had not been on a date in over 25 years when I went out with Mr. A.
I do recall the first time Mr. A and I went out I was so nervous. He actually kissed me...I could have died! I had not kissed another man in so long! It took me quite by surprise. After parting I started crying because I was so mad at my H for putting me in this position of having to date at 46. Yes, I know kind of weird. But now I am quite comfortable...but it took me a while to get there. You just have to dip your toe in the water and get the hang of dating, unfortunately...lol, it was almost like I got pushed in the pool...lol.
My lunch date Saturday with the new guy was nice. He only gave me a hug and kissed me on the forhead...very tall man! I liked that much better for the first date!
I'm not ready for anything serious, but it sure is nice having a life again!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon