I completely agree with you on the R talk. But my MC seems to disagree. He did for sure bring it up in their session yesterday, as MC told me he was going to bring it up in our session earlier that morning. I wasn't there, so I don't know what happened. But when H brought the kids home last night, he was incredibly grumpy and admitted to it as well. But by the time he left he was happy. He hung out with us for a while and I cut his hair. I know I should not have let this happen. No boundary setting there. I'm really worried now that the MC pushed the R talk and he got upset and annoyed and is now pulling back again even though I was not a part of it whatsoever. I know the MC won't tell me what he said, but I can't help but worry that it didn't go well and that is the reason for his grumpiness. He also said he wanted to come over tonight and see the kids for a while before he goes back to work tomorrow. Should I leave when he gets here? Or tell him no, that if he wants to see the kids he hast to pick them up and take them elsewhere? I just don't want to be mean. Our house is filled with toys, and things to do, and I feel its a good place for them to spend time together. So maybe I should leave for a few hours. ???


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14